• PRIVATE PLAY ROOMS: When in use, please shut the door if you do not wish people to enter. If you encounter a closed door, assume the couples inside do not wish to be disturbed. When finished in the play room, please clean up after yourselves and leave the door open when leaving. If you encounter a closed door and believe the room to be empty or find a playroom in need of cleaning or restocking, please contact your hosts.
• SEMI-PRIVATE PLAY ROOM: This larger play room is open to all who wish to utilize it, including observe however please refrain from distracting behavior including: laughing, making comments at people playing, loud conversation. If you are there to observe, please do so quietly and respectfully. Couples wishing a more private environment should move to a private play room or their own rooms. When done in the play room, please clean up after yourselves. If you encounter a closed door and believe the room to be empty or find a playroom in need of cleaning or restocking, please contact your hosts.
• COUPLES ONLY: Unless SPECIFCALLY INVITED by couples playing, all playrooms are for COUPLES ONLY – remember, this is a couples weekend, and if your partner is in the lounge or has gone to bed, you should be with them (even if they have given you ‘permission’ to play alone). This will be STRICTLY ENFORCED.
• RESPECT ALL: Remember, do not invite yourself/join any group that is in the middle of play/massage. Only join groups if you are specifically invited. Individuals or couples who join groups uninvited is considered a serious situation and may be subject to removal from the event without refund.
• CLEANLINESS: Please assist us in keeping the rooms clean after use by properly disposing of used condoms, wrappers, beer bottles, cups, etc. Please inform your hosts if playrooms are in need of attention or restocking.

1. BE COURTEOUS - Courteously is how we all want to be treated - with kindness, thoughtfulness, understanding and sensitivity. In essence, courtesy is our treating people the way we ourselves want to be treated. Remember the rules.

2. BE FRIENDLY - Whether or not you are personally interested in swinging with someone, be polite. You never know, you may share many other interests or you may meet that person again, and they may introduce you to someone with whom you ARE compatible and do wish to share time.

3. CLEANLINESS - Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than an unclean body or unfresh breath. Even if you shower and perfume yourself before you leave home, it is always a good idea to freshen up again when you arrive at your destination. It is amazing what time to drive somewhere, stop for a bite, or whatever, can do or rather UNDO.

4. RESPECT OTHERS' FEELINGS - Beware, not everyone is comfortable in all situations, Keep your eyes open for signs that your partner, as well as others, is relaxed and enjoying themselves. If someone is not comfortable, try helping them over the rough spots. Remember, you were a beginner once yourself. If it is obvious that things are not working out, remain polite and courteous; but alert the host. Keep in mind that not all people feel the same about things.

5. DON'T BE PUSHY - If you are interested in swinging with someone, let them know in an inviting way; if they are interested, they will respond positively. If they are not and say "No, thank you," do not ask WHY. No amount of sweet talk or coercion on your part will change their mind and will probably work against you. Everyone has the right to say "NO" at all times, to anyone, without explanation. Do not ever forget that. Also, do not join a scene without permission.

6. ONLY DO WHAT IS FUN FOR YOU - Do not allow yourself to become sexually involved with anybody that you are not interested in. There is no reason to involve yourself in a scene that you are not comfortable with. You are in the lifestyle to enjoy yourself, so only do what you want, when you want and with whom you want.

7. HOW AND WHY TO SAY NO - One of the basic etiquettes in swinging is the right of anyone to say "No". Experience has taught most people that everybody is not right for everybody else. Improper handling of a situation, however, can lead to a lot of hurt or very bad feelings. The swing world accepts the premise that everyone has the right to say "No" to anyone at anytime and it should be done with a simple "No, thank you". Never give an explanation, because that is what usually causes the problems and the pain.

8. ALCOHOL - Some of us drink socially. At times, a few drinks are nice to help you "relax". Over-indulging may hamper your physical abilities, as well as offend or turn other people off to you. If you have to over indulge in order to participate in swinging, you are involved in the wrong lifestyle.

9. PRACTICE SAFER SEX - It is up to us to protect ourselves as well as our partners. With the present concern over sexually transmitted diseases, the use of condoms should not offend anybody. Anyone not willing to take this precaution is acting selfishly and irresponsibly. You are not being accused of being unclean, but simply someone wishes to provide you both with protection.

10. ENJOY YOURSELF - Most important, have a good time, act out your fantasies, explore your own sexuality and enjoy everything this lifestyle has to offer with enthusiasm, laughter and a positive attitude.